I met Dan when I first moved to Atlanta in 2007 and met Autumn soon after during her many big-brother-visits. Autumn was always such a bright and shining light in every room she walked into. Without question, her jokes, her energy, her laughter, and her positive attitude were absolutely second to none (her arms too, she had great arms).
Since Dan’s diagnosis with ALS this year, and Dan and Lisa’s wedding in June, I have been so blessed with the opportunity to get to know Autumn (and everyone else in this great group of friends and family) much better. Autumn was always at the center of everything. Of course the pre-wedding parties in Tampa were awesome because of Autumn, the time Dan was in the hospital earlier this month were brightened tremendously by Autumn, and unquestionably the ALS walk preparation, Dan/Autumn-inspired t-shirt design we all had to wear, and post-walk party were amazing because of Autumn. No question that Autumn knew how to throw a party!
The strongest memory that comes to mind now was from a few weeks ago, in early October, when Dan was in the Emory ICU. Autumn must have felt my uneasy feelings on Dan’s condition or apprehensiveness towards doctors and pulled me aside (no apprehension towards veterinarians Lisa, just people docs). We walked into the room next to Dan’s bed and Autumn decided that it was a great time to lighten up my afternoon with a show-and-tell of her new pistol (she was quite excited about the new piece). All I could say was “Autumn! Awesome!” I don’t know how she did it, but Autumn could brighten any room, turn any frown into a smile, and really pick out a nice handgun…
While there have been so many great memories and laughs this past year with everyone, there has also been a number of difficulties to overcome. Autumn’s passing now is just unthinkable. I have no idea why terrible things happen, but I am very thankful for the opportunity to have known Autumn during the time I did. Her heart and energy will never be forgotten by any of us. She was and always will be amazing—she will live forever through all of us that have known and loved her.
Ryan Holte